I am not obliged to pretend you’re consistent.
Thus if you say you have no expectations of me, and then when i do anything that was out of your plans you act all disappointed, then, by all means: You had expectations indeed and it is not on me the burden of proof. I don’t have to show you your inconsistency. And i by no means have any duty to accept you shooting the messenger.
If you say you respect my ideas and get upset whenever i say something interesting, keep your so-called “respect” for yourself.
Consistency is a quality. It is also something that isn’t as easy as it sound. If you don’t have it, shame on you.