What is important to you?
Reality, or life, or the world, that which you experience by whatever name you chose to give, reality is mostly uniform. But there are some spots where you can find leverage. Like a door: you can squish it at many places and nothing will happen, but if you squish at the door handle it opens.
What people find important is, in many ways, just their way of tuning their cognitive tools to find those spots. Very rarely people will accept comentary about such options. Nevertheless, this tends to be an interestin question: what is important for you?
What is, for you?